Mindset can *make* or break youThe day I trusted my sick husband to navigate in Costa Rica during rainy season... was the day I witnessed the very real power of mindset. We had rented a car in Costa Rica for our "engage-moon" on the cheap during rainy season. After spending a few days in a treat yo'self villa for my birthday, Todd was sick (too much sun, alcohol, and low potassium) so I drove, and he navigated. An hour into the valley of potholes, we realized we'd accidentally taken the back way... in rainy season... with less than a quarter tank of gas and no gas station in sight. 🫠This is precisely the moment Todd's face started feeling numb... the symptom that scares me the most. Old me? She would have melted down. Tears, panic, the whole thing. Survival-mode me? She had nothing left but mindset. And it’s incredible how a single shift can change how you handle everything that comes next. Instead of panicking, I decided: We’re going to be okay. And we were. *Mindset is everything* when it comes to freelancing without losing your mindLike when a project is taking longer than expected… One option is to freak out, get mad, point fingers, feel overwhelmed, which only makes things take even longer. The other? Actively monitor scope, get proactive, and treat it like a CHALLENGE to find efficiencies. I'm in the middle of a project right now scoped at 13 hoursI've already hit 13, and there's more to do. 🙃 But because I tracked scope in detail from the start, I know exactly what went wrong (I didn’t account for learning a new landing page builder in HubSpot, or fighting with Kajabi’s email builder.) Without numbers, it can FEEL like things are taking too long and you're helpless really bc its not grounded in anything concrete. With the numbers, you KNOW exactly what's happening, when, and why. I'm not fussed about the extra hours but I'm also not wasting a single second either. Next time, my pricing will include the additional time—and I won't hesitate to charge it because it's justified. IMHO: mindset divides freelancers into two categoriesThose who say everything will be fine, but it's surface level... just words Those who know it’ll be okay, because they see it, so they feel it, and their actions make it so. ​Knowing your numbers is how you go deeper. ​ RBH Robyn Henke |
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